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Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Wed Sep 09, 2015 2:27 pm
by morf13
Cutting your hair,shaving, etc, a sign of keeping yourself groomed for sure, but bathing is another story. I have short hair, and regularly shave, but if I spent a day outside doing yard work,etc and didn't shower,I could be pretty ripe(lucky for my Wife I shower every day ;) ) I don't think shaving/haircuts always go hand in hand with bathing(although they probably should :? )

Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Wed Sep 09, 2015 2:31 pm
by Marshall
morf13 wrote:Cutting your hair,shaving, etc, a sign of keeping yourself groomed for sure, but bathing is another story. I have short hair, and regularly shave, but if I spent a day outside doing yard work,etc and didn't shower,I could be pretty ripe(lucky for my Wife I shower every day ;) ) I don't think shaving/haircuts always go hand in hand with bathing(although they probably should :? )


True, but crew cuts also didn't go hand in hand with the hippie culture. It's a lot easier, and cheaper, to just let hair grow on your head and face. Especially if you're basically homeless, poor, and suffering from severe mental illness that is distorting your sense of reality. I find it interesting that, for whatever reason, Ross didn't go that route.

Again, I'm not drawing a conclusion, just pondering the observation.

Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Wed Sep 09, 2015 3:54 pm
by Norse
On a general note, I'd say that if he appeared well groomed around 1970 he wouldn't have been homeless or a drifter. More likely that he was living in an institution, but that he was allowed out (so to speak) from time to time.

Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Wed Sep 09, 2015 6:28 pm
by Marshall
Norse wrote:On a general note, I'd say that if he appeared well groomed around 1970 he wouldn't have been homeless or a drifter. More likely that he was living in an institution, but that he was allowed out (so to speak) from time to time.


Yes, that's sort of where I was drifting... that maybe someone else was seeing to it that he was getting regular haircuts. I'm not seeing Ross making it a priority for himself.

Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Wed Sep 09, 2015 7:18 pm
by morf13
Marshall wrote:
Norse wrote:On a general note, I'd say that if he appeared well groomed around 1970 he wouldn't have been homeless or a drifter. More likely that he was living in an institution, but that he was allowed out (so to speak) from time to time.


Yes, that's sort of where I was drifting... that maybe someone else was seeing to it that he was getting regular haircuts. I'm not seeing Ross making it a priority for himself.


He may have just been the type that did not like long hair,or that kind of look

Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Thu Sep 10, 2015 2:56 pm
by Norse
He was mentally ill too, though, to the point where he was deemed unfit to handle his own affairs. All in all I think it's unlikely that a person like him would be able to maintain any sort of groomed appearance if he was on his own, regardless of what look he preferred.

All speculation, of course. But I'd theorize that if he appeared fairly groomed around 1970 he was a) not that ill at the time, i.e. he had a job and a place to live or b) institutionalized.

Given what we know of his history both prior to and after 1970, I'd further suggest that b) is the more likely alternative.

Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Thu Sep 10, 2015 3:47 pm
by Marshall
Norse wrote:He was mentally ill too, though, to the point where he was deemed unfit to handle his own affairs. All in all I think it's unlikely that a person like him would be able to maintain any sort of groomed appearance if he was on his own, regardless of what look he preferred.

All speculation, of course. But I'd theorize that if he appeared fairly groomed around 1970 he was a) not that ill at the time, i.e. he had a job and a place to live or b) institutionalized.

Given what we know of his history both prior to and after 1970, I'd further suggest that b) is the more likely alternative.


Also, the fact he walked into an apartment that was no longer his. Which might either mean he left his current place to go to his former place, or he was released and had no current place to go, so he went to the only apartment he was familiar with.

Or... maybe he was just out of butter... :roll:

Since this was in 1970, after the final Z murder, all that would be required, health-wise, would be for him to become periodically lucid enough to write letters. And other than the map, the complicated ones (ciphers) had already been sent. The complexity of the Z letters seems to have been going downhill starting around this time, much as Ross' mental abilities.

Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Thu Sep 10, 2015 4:44 pm
by Susie
Norse wrote:On a general note, I'd say that if he appeared well groomed around 1970 he wouldn't have been homeless or a drifter. More likely that he was living in an institution, but that he was allowed out (so to speak) from time to time.

I would not make that assumption about him being in an institution. Being conserved and living in an institution do not go hand in hand. If he was in an institution he most likely would not have been "allowed out from time to time". At least not without supervision from someone. It's more likely that he was living in more of a support living setting than a locked down type.

Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Thu Sep 10, 2015 4:45 pm
by Susie
To me it seems like people are not having a difficult time understanding what it means to be institutionalized or how easy it can be to have someone conserved. I have worked with plenty of people that have been conserved that I strongly disagree with and it was even easier back in the day. If someone has a mental health or developmental disability a family member can easily argue for conservatorship. Also, if someone is conserved it does not mean that they can not take care of a lot of their own needs. If you want to look at modern day Brittany Spears is still conserved in regards to certain aspects of her life and still lives independently with a very successful career. We really need to learn more about why he was conserved and what areas they actually focused on.

In regards to being institutionalized; that implies they are residing in the institution. The supported living home he was living in when he passed away is NOT an institution and/or locked facility. You are able to come and go as you please. There usually are some rules, such as being there for your therapy sessions or during the time medication is given out, but you are not locked in. We have no idea when Ross was living in an institution, when he was living in a support living setting, when he had an apartment, etc, so we really can not try to figure out a timeline or whether or not he “escaped” at some point.

There is also no reason to believe that Ross was not capable of going to get a hair cut. Especially a crew cut, because that is the easiest to take care of. Just because he did not like to shower, does not mean he could not make and keep a hair appointment. For all we know he had a friend that cut it for him or a family member that followed up with him. Just because someone has a mental health disorder does not mean they can not make sure simple tasks are taken care of. Per the Joann Bailey he did not like to shower or change his clothing very much, so having a short hair makes it that much easier to not need to shower.

I think we are making to many assumptions about where Ross lived and how much of his daily living tasks he was able to complete on his own. My guess is he was able to do a lot more than people are assuming.

Re: People that knew Ross

PostPosted: Thu Sep 10, 2015 6:14 pm
by Norse
Sure, but whether he was in an according-to-Hoyle institution or something less heavy isn't the point. Was he homeless? Was he a drifter? Or was he under some form of supervision, with people around him who made sure he looked presentable? I'd say the latter is more likely than the former. And that's all I'm saying.

And - which is crucial here - if he was under supervision, in care, call it what you will, there will be records of this somewhere.