by JeffP » Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:09 pm
Alright i'll let everyone in on something. About one and half months ago one of Ross' first cousins (whom I contacted in summer of 2015) contacted me out of the blue. She didn't really know much about Ross, because she was younger than him and never actually met him. She was friendly with Jonathon and Timothy as the east coast Sullivans and the west coast Sullivans reunited in the early 1970s and she got to know them then. She remains friendly with Jonathan's family.
Anyway we exchanged several messages and talked about some things.
1) The family definitely knows about this site and our investigation of Ross.
2) Apparently there was some sort of family conference about whether they would help me/us at all after she and I began discussing this.
She is a very nice lady and has been very respectful, and seemed genuinely interested in what we have found. But it's obvious that the family decided not to help and now she won't talk to me anymore. The only information I got out of her was that Ross was no longer involved in family activities by the early 1970s and that Harold Sullivan had died of kidney cancer.
This was EXTREMELY disappointing for me. So much so that I all but gave up on the whole thing, until the past few days when this new information arrived.
Here's the thing. I contacted her very recently again and asked her if she could tell me what happened with Harold that would cause him to leave his sons in foster care. Again, she was very nice, but she wrote, "i'm sorry Jeff, but you're going to have to get that information from someone else," suggesting - as I strongly suspect - that something big had in fact happened. I believe the family knows far more than they are letting on. But the family clearly doesn't want to talk about it and, honestly, they seem like very nice people. So I feel badly bothering them.
I have a suspicion I know what it is due to what Allan Sillanphant told us. But I have no details so I prefer not assume anything about it. But I think this newest lead could help us unravel this mystery. I know many people have not been as interested as some of us at looking at Harold. But Ross' problems seem to have started around then and we know he spent time in mental hospitals BEFORE he went to Riverside. So this could lead to other information as well. I was wondering if anyone was willing to work together to locate this younger Prugh guy and ask him about Ross and Harold. Or possibly make another attempt to contact the Glendale YMCA and ask them if they're willing to help us.
Not much has been going on and I assume most of you are as frustrated as I am researching this. But i'd like to give it another shot.