Tahoe27 wrote:JeffP wrote:...By 1965-66 Ross' brothers were telling their family back east that Ross had committed suicide in a mental hospital.
Can you elaborate on this? Sorry if I missed it somewhere.
I spoke with two different sets of Ross' cousins and they told me some stories. One interesting one that both cousins told me independently was that in 1965 or 1966 Timothy hitchhiked across country and visited with his family in Connecticut. There, when asked about Ross, he told them that Ross had committed suicide when he was a patient in a mental hospital. Jonathon visited the same family roughly in 1968 and he told them the same thing.
I was also told that the Sullivan family, through their aunt, had a hunting farm and the kids all learned how to shoot when they were young.
In 1968, when he was dying with cancer, Harold returned to CT. He told his family that he had been in Europe teaching in all the great cathedrals. But we know from his obituary that he was in New York working as some clerk. It's possible he was lying to them. When he died none of his sons attended the funeral.
Harriet Sullivan (nee Gray), Ross' mother, came from a wealthy Maine family. Her grandfather had basically built the town of Old Towne, Maine and her father ran one of the factories in town. He was very prominent in the Universalist Church and was a town leader. His name was Maurice Herbert Gray. He hated Harold and forbade Harriet from marrying him. But she did anyway and was disowned by her father. Her mother had died of brain cancer at 34. Her brother died when he was a kid. After she died Harriet was placed in the Gray family plot in Maine. Although he lived until 1964 and his ONLY grandkids (Ross and his brothers) were basically destitute after 1961, he didn't do anything to help them. He left them nothing when he died.